What do I Say When My Client Says…?

“You look bored,” or “worried,” or “tired.” If I am, I say so, but always with some commentary.  I might say, “Yes, I am feeling worried—the choice you are describing seems unsafe,” or “The decision you are facing is difficult no matter what you chose, and I am...

The Power of the Room

On more than one occasion, I have had clients comment, “I’ve never been allowed to talk about this before.”  The word “allowed” always stood out to me.  They didn’t mean that someone had forbidden them to talk about a particular topic, but rather that they had a...